The purpose of a relationship is not to be loved perfectly, or forever. It is not to have our every whim and wish met and fulfilled. It is not to be completed, or to have our minds and hearts fueled by hormonal stimulation we think is the feeling of love. The purpose of a relationship is not the Universe's way of saying "you're worthy, and here's someone to prove it."
The purpose of a relationship is to see ourselves completely. It is to see the parts of ourselves that we are otherwise unconscious of. The purpose of a relationship is to infuriate and overjoy and destroy us, so we can see what angers us, what thrills us, and where we need to give ourselves love. The purpose of a relationship is not to fix us or heal us, or to make us whole and happy, it is to show us where we need fixing, and what parts of us are still broken, and perhaps the most brutal of all: that nobody can do this work, or make us happy, but ourselves.
-Brianna Wiest
A happy relationship is something more, something that shows the relationship meaningful. A relationship has a purpose . goal is happiness, contentment, security or safety?
Is in the dictionary 'target' defined as: something that you're trying to achieve . And with that definition in mind, you might ask yourself, "What is the purpose of my relationship?" My
For me, it is hard to enter in a relationship that you are not aware what you really feels. It's just like sailing your boat down the road. I can not imagine myself having a boyfriend and the worst is having a family. Relationship is being related to the people you love, when we say love it is abstract. Sometimes you do not know that your future husband or wife is your classmate, enemy, neighbor, teacher, manager, driver, schoolmate, and worst cousin. You can not predict whom you're in love with. You just can not walk inside the room without using the door, just like in a relationship, you can not just love without even knowing the true meaning of it.
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